The males love doing heart wings both to me and their mates, or all by themselves, like Audrey

I couldn't say either sex is sweeter, but the males are usually quicker to fly to me when I enter their room, and they whistle more and louder and longer sequences. Meaning, a male might whistle a song, while a female whistles a line, or a mere chirp.
The males are very quick to fly to (protect) their mate if I touch her for some reason, and many love drumming their beaks on anything that will produce a percussion sound. They're show-offs!
The heart wings are the surest sign IMO.