I just have a couple of thoughts/comments, no bashing of anyone.
I know after my Mom passed none of her birds would be placed other than where she wanted them, with us.
I think that it is unfair to
expect a child to take care of a parent's bird(s) after the parent's death. Parrots can be a lot of work and are a huge responsibility. If the child already has parrots of their own or a busy life, s/he may not have the energy or the time to devote. If the parent had not made arrangements for the care of the birds beforehand, I think it is reasonable for a child to find good appropriate homes for the birds.
I don't know Amber, but apparently, she lost her mother and is still grieving. Please have a little compassion. As an only child, I will be devastated when I lose my parents.
if you don't give me my bird back because I thought you were a good home I will contact my lawyer for breaching the contract. Bashing me and lieing to people on here it is wrong. I want my bird back because you are not a good home.
Unless you are authorized to adopt out birds under the rescue (are listed as part of the governing board), AND this person signed an adoption agreement stating they would return the bird under certain circumstances, I do not think they have to give the bird back. Just because you do not see eye to eye does not mean they are not providing the bird an excellent home. If they love the bird, and the bird is happy now, do you really want to take it back out of spite?
Now for my little rant...
As far as rescues go, I see the need, but I also think some rescues need to be a little more realistic. I live in the middle of a state that doesn't have even one bird rescue. The nearest ones are 6-7 hours away. I've driven that twice to get two different cockatoos that were being rehomed. A couple rescues will not adopt to me because I do not live in their area, and one did not even have the courtesy to return my calls or emails. If I am willing to drive that far to spend time with a bird before deciding to adopt it, then why am I not a good candidate? I have been in contact with one rescue that is willing to adopt to me though. They know through the vet in their area everything I went through when one of my cockatoos was ill. (I drove my cockatoo 7 hours to a vet in their area. There was nothing that could be done because the brain cells at the back of her brain were dying.) Some rescues make it so difficult to adopt that it becomes easier to just buy a baby from a breeder. I still miss my sweet Too terribly. I have her huge cage in the garage for when I am ready. Whether I adopt from a rescue or get a baby from a breeder remains to be seen.
Okay, I got that out of my system. Well, kind of...