I have recently purchased a pair of lovebirds. I do understand that when they are in a pair, they tend to pay more attention to each other than to humans. That is fine with me and I love watching them with each other.
I do have two questions about them that perhaps might be answered here. If there is another thread on either of these already, I apologize. I did look first but maybe I missed it.
1) This pair were bought from a pet store. I do know now that this was probably not the best idea, as they are definitely not socialized. Even so, I did not want to bring them back because I love them anyway
However, they do not seem to love me so much. I give them the best care that I can. They have a clean cage with varied perches, a good supply of clean food and water, treats, and toys. I even play music for them (Mozart) and nature sounds - both of which they seem to enjoy. Despite all of this, they will not come near me unless I am offering them millet and they certainly will not let me touch them. The male runs away from me while the female tries to bite (and actually will bite if I let her) whenever I get near.2) They get droppings on pretty much everything. I try to keep their cage clean, but some things are harder to clean. For instance, they have a sort of tunnel made out of coconut fiber. They LOVE it. But sadly a couple of washings has nearly destroyed the thing. Also, I want to give the female a nest to work with - but I am worried about what I should do when she fouls the nest. No doubt she would be upset if I touched it, let alone took it out to wash it!
Any input would be wonderful. I love these two and want to do the best for them.
But you know what? In the long run they will love you and recognize you as their friend, just don't give up. Those birds are blessed to have someone like you who will do everything to win their hearts. 
