by suby on Sun Dec 31, 2006 1:47 pm
Hi! I had the same problem with Jerry Lee. A friend of mine found him in his backyard and gave him to me, so I'm not sure how old he was, but he was definitely not very young. He was very much set in his ways, very distrustful of me, and extremely protective of his cage. I really didn't think he'd get along with another bird, but my friend suggested getting a female so he wouldn't be alone, so I did.
Jessie was less than a year old when I got her, and Jerry Lee was completely swept off his feet. They shared the same cage without problems, even though I kept a second cage on hand, just in case. Jerry Lee had bad social skills, but they actually improved the longer Jessie stayed. He now does typical cockatiel things, like putting his beak into his feathers while sleeping (before, he just kind of pulled his head in like a turtle), and he ventures away from the cage, including flying on my head. If he accidentally preens her too hard or annoys her, she hisses at him, and that does the trick. It helps that she has a very gentle demeanor and doesn't seem to hold grudges against him.
As for the breeding, Jessie does lay eggs, and she probably would even if there wasn't a male around. I read somewhere that they need a proper nesting box, otherwise the chicks won't hatch, but I'm not taking that chance. I let her sit on them a few days, and then I take them away. She doesn't seem to have a problem with that.
I don't think age difference is a problem; the most important thing is that you get a very gentle bird and keep another cage at hand, just in case. You might also want to talk to the breeder about returning the bird in case it does not work out.
Good luck!