I'm so glad to hear your females are 'needy' too!
In four years, and about 8 moults, I've not seen my single female, Bailey, require so-o-o much attention from me. She'll beak-bump my cheek at least 10 times in a day looking for a nice little neck scratch. And absolutely LOVES it, when I gently blow on her pin feathers.
Poor little thing must be itchy as all 'get out'! ... and feathers every-where. Does a little 'tiel really have over 2 million feathers??

'cuz it sure seems that way!
Thanx
Pete