by petdiva on Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:05 pm
To me, it sounds like she is happy now. Since she doesn't have the stress that she had in her former home(s), she quit barbering.
Since she won't let you love her up yet, just continue to tell her what a good girl she is and how proud you are of her. One step at a time. It sounds like you've already made many good steps. She will come around in time. And you're right about having time on your side. You two should enjoy many years together. Although Greys aren't known for being cuddly birds, both of mine can be quite affectionate and cuddly at times.