annvenn wrote:... I’m hoping between a big bird cage, plenty of toys and frequent playtime outside his African grey cage, my parrot will keep happy and perky...
Those good things surely will do no harm, Ann, but there are many more things a captive bird needs. One you can do nothing about after bringing a bird home is his genetic heritage. Many researchers feel that the tendency to feather destruct may have a genetic component.
Another vital element is diet. We know so little about our birds' needs and so few parronts make much effort to learn and deliver. Vitamin D is also necessary, so easily provided by sunlight, but so hard to provide for our birds safely. If your bird is fully flighted, as most experts feel he should be, how can you safely get him into (and back out of) an outdoor cage (large enough for him to use those gorgeous wings)? How will you safeguard him there from predators? It can be done, but it requires very careful planning and daily implementation.
Another critical issue is your relationship with him. His instincts are to seek a mate. If he decides you are the best mate available, how will he feel when you refuse his advances? Many feel that feather destruction has a hormonal component. The recommendation I've heard in conferences through the years is that we be our bird's playmate vs sweet-talking mom. Learning to play together in ways that don't lead to mate bonding is often harder for the human than the bird. Clicker training is a method many feel helps us humans learn to play with our birds in healthy ways.
You sound eager to do this right, Ann. KUDOS! Subscribe to Good Bird magazine. Check out the schedule of avian conferences in your region. Read and learn as much as you possibly can. If your grey begins to feather destruct, get help FAST! First see a good avian vet, then another in consultation, then read even more, and -- most of all -- love your bird despite. It happens. It's not the worst thing that can happen.